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The Drama Triangle

The Drama Triangle was a concept invented in the 1960s by Dr. Stephan Karpman, to describe in the simplest possible terms the screwed-up psychological roles that people play in habitual, dysfunctional relationships. The three roles are: Victim, Persecutor, and Rescuer. The titles are pretty self-explanatory, but just to review…the Victim is the person who is […]

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6 Negative Behaviors Of Others You Should Not Allow In Your Life

Have you ever felt like you deserve something better? Then why settle for something less than you desire? You can decide from now that you won’t tolerate bad behavior in your life. People who try to bring you down suck the life from you and leave you feeling miserable. Why would you accept that when […]

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Can Other People’s Vibrations Really Affect You?

By LoveOrAbove Do you believe you are affected by, or immune to, other people’s vibrations? The answer lies somewhere in the middle, as you’ll see in a moment. When someone in a bad mood walks into a room, they can instantly bring everyone down. It works the other way, too – a happy person can […]

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12 Ways To Turn Your Wounds Into Wisdom & Strength

Marc and Angel, two passionate writers, life-hackers and “admirers of the human spirit,” have come up with an amazing list of 12 Ways To Turn Your Wounds Into Wisdom & Strength. “Behind every beautiful thing, there’s some kind of pain.” ―Bob Dylan At some point, you will come to realize that living the good life […]

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You can do anything you decide to do…

“The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life; and the procedure , the process is its own reward.” Amelia Earhart

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My Crystals …. What Do I Do With Them?

HOW DO I CHOOSE A CRYSTAL? There will be times when you need to purchase a crystal, and given the great abundance of healing stones now available, it can be useful to have a system for choosing your crystals. You do not need to know the exact properties of every stone in order to buy […]

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10 Things Self-Loving People Do Differently

Marc and Angel, two passionate writers, life-hackers and “admirers of the human spirit,” have come up with an amazing list of 10 Things Self-Loving People Do Differently. If you like their list, make sure you check out their site and sign up to their amazing newsletter! 10 Things Self-Loving People Do Differently The most powerful […]

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Commitment to self

….The biggest commitment you must keep is your commitment to yourself. Betrayal of yourself In order not to betray another Is betrayal nonetheless. It is the highest betrayal. This is not a call for willy-nilly abandonment of a job or a person or a situation. But it is your notice from the Universe that it […]

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5 Common Ways Of Transmuting Emotional Energies

  By Michelle Walling, CHLC Relationships are a gift whether you are on the giving end or the receiving end. Being able to share consciousness with another human being is a balancing act. There are 5 common ways of transmuting emotional energies that may cause conflicts within a relationship. What do you do if you are […]

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To become a butterfly, you must be willing to give up being a caterpillar.