Archive | Trauma

The Science of Affection: How a Rebel Researcher Pioneered the Study of Love in the 1950s and Illuminated How Parents Shape Children’s Emotional Patterns

“If monkeys have taught us anything,” Harlow asserted in reflecting on his experiments, “it’s that you’ve got to learn how to love before you learn how to live.” Do give a read to: https://www.brainpickings.org/2016/07/07/love-at-goon-park-harry-harlow-deborah-blum/?utm_source=pocket&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=pockethits The Science of Affection: How a Rebel Researcher Pioneered the Study of Love in the 1950s and Illuminated How Parents Shape […]

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Can Trauma Be Passed From Parent to Child?

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“The Secret Formula for Resilience”

Dear Readers Resilience is one of my favorite topics. It is about how we decide to perceive and experience adversity. As this author states “Perception is key to resilience: Do you conceptualize an event as traumatic, or as a chance to learn and grow?”  This is so true, and so relevant to personal growth and […]

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Soul Retrieval

Unresolved trauma from our family of origin can cause many of our repeating patterns and puzzling issues in our daily lives. Psychology calls this dissociation. We remedy this with Soul Retrieval ~ removing the “hot button” that activates these old memories, some of which may not even be active ones, hiding from us to protect […]

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How Living In The Past Fractures Your Relationships + 5 Ways To Heal

  By Aletheia Luna   When you reflect on your past, what do you think of and how do you feel? If you are like most people you are invigorated with distant memories of love and joy – perhaps you reflect on past romances, distant lands, old friends or small successes. But there is a flip […]

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How To Overcome Pain & Leverage Stress — According To Science

Dear Clients and Friends: I love this article, it tells the story so well. This attitude and approach has worked for me for my entire life! Try it – it is the key to success in all arenas! – Kitty by Benjamin Hardy  15 years ago, Jane Christensen, renowned herbalist and health practitioner, crashed hard […]

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You are not your Story

On this day of your life, I believe God wants you to know… …that you are not your ‘story.’ Who You Are is so much bigger than that. It’s okay to give up your past now. Most of us have a story about how we got to be the way we are, about what it’s […]

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5 Steps To Recover From Personal Trauma

  By Steven Bancarz      We’ve all had a few traumatic times in life, some bigger than others.  While some people seem highly resilient to traumas, others get dragged into a downward spiral of depression and anger.  The different between these two types of people comes down to how pain is managed, utilized, and […]

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The Cause Of Your Low Self Esteem May Not Be What You Expect

  By: Brianna | Exist Better Take a second to imagine little you – running around like the raggamuffin that you were. Imagine as far back as you can remember – back when you were first able to comprehend feedback from parents, teachers, or whatever other authorities were around. When considering the causes of low […]

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To become a butterfly, you must be willing to give up being a caterpillar.